saw the following post on gim's site,
thought it was a good one & hence posting it here...
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In loving relationships,
people warn one another of the
inevitable consequences of foolish behavior.
In unhealthy relationships,
people threaten one another with punishment
if they fail to live up to unreasonable demands.
Warnings are expression of love;
Threats are expression of control.